It can be frustrating and disheartening to encounter negativity or pushback from your family or  the medical community when you are planning a natural birth or home birth. Here are a few strategies that may be helpful in dealing with these fears and frustrations:

1. Seek out supportive care providers: Look for healthcare providers who are supportive of natural birth and home birth options and who will respect your decision to pursue these options.
2. Educate yourself: Make sure you understand the benefits and risks of natural birth and home birth so that you can make an informed decision and advocate for yourself.
3. Find a supportive community: Surround yourself with others who are also interested in natural birth or home birth, or who have had successful natural or home births. This can provide a sense of community and support.
4. Communicate with your care provider: Talk to your care provider about your desires for a natural or home birth and try to come to a mutually acceptable plan. It may be helpful to have a backup plan in case medical intervention becomes necessary.
5. Consider seeking additional support: If you are struggling with fear or frustration related to your birth plans, it may be helpful to work with a mental health professional who can help you navigate these emotions and develop coping strategies.